There
have been many areas in the Pastoral Epistles that impacted me, but only space
here to elaborate on a few. First, I must say that my course-mates are a very
interesting bunch, with ages ranging from 25 to 70. Being with the younger
people really spurs me on. I cannot help but be super-charged each time we get
together for lessons. They are always laughing, so enthusiastic and so
positive. Even break time is FUN – the talking, the laughing and the
interactions make the time pass so fast, even the many-hour day classes! I
truly enjoyed the fellowship with one and all. Bringing the little snacks,
drinks, chocolates have been my special way of appreciating each one in the
class, including Brother Casey and Sister Davina.
Without doubt, the members of my group (2) have
been such an inspiration to me. With their readiness to help, their positive
feedback and support - they have been so encouraging. The GRP assignment was
such a delight to work on. Creativity was forthcoming. All chipped in to the
task at hand. Although one of the group members had to withdraw early from the
course leaving the three of us to manage, the task ahead though challenging, was
not as intimidating as we had anticipated. This was because each of us came
with different sets of skills, and as we quickly pulled together we were able
to continue and complete the assignment with little difficulty.
Most of the content in the
Pastoral Epistles focus on pastoral issues, such as moral character, ethics and
sound doctrine for Christian living. I find the lectures on these issues very
interesting and meaningful as what is being taught in the Pastoral Epistles are
still relevant and applicable to us today. We are exhorted to live holy and
godly lives and be mindful of our attitude in the church and society today. For
example, on the moral character that is desirable of church leaders - these
would inevitably apply to all Christians as well, regardless whether they are
holding any office in the church. All in all, these instructions have greatly encouraged
and helped me to reflect on my moral character and attitude toward others,
especially those I come into contact with daily. And with the help of the Holy
Spirit, I am confident that I will be able to ‘guard the deposit’ God has given
me. (2 Tim 6:20)
From the readings and research, I was able to recognize the
importance of Paul’s instruction on the calling of wives to be subject to their
husbands in Titus 2:5. All the while this concept puzzled me and even proved challenging,
especially in today’s context. However, from reading the section on this idea (in the book entitled Letters to Paul’s
Delegates by Luke, Timothy and Johnson 235), I realized the purpose for
this particular piece of instruction to younger women. In the time of the Greco
Roman world, the idea of insubordination or instability in the oikos or household was reason enough for
any observer to condemn a religious movement,(p235). It was that serious.
Therefore any sense of inappropriateness seen in any Christian household would
immediately bring disrepute to the church, religion or gospel being preached.
Since discovering this gem, my perspective has changed and I am now able to
understand the purpose for Paul’s exhortation to women regarding their attitude
and behavior toward their husbands – they are subject to them as head of the
household.
When I read Paul’s instruction to older women to teach younger
women I immediately thought of my own church setting. My church is a small
family church and more than half of the younger women have school-going
children, while some have teenagers and young adults. Many times, I have
encountered these women sharing their struggles and difficulties concerning
their children or even with their spouses. What can I do to help these young
women and mothers with their problems? Well, as Paul says, be someone who can
encourage the younger women in their roles relating to the household, husbands
and children. I am challenged to do something - I am determined to put my
maturity to good use first, in the church by my good example and to share the
moral values learnt with the women.
It has truly been worthwhile - this journey through the Pastoral
Epistles. It had been a time of reflection and revision, refreshing. I have
learnt much about prayer, thanksgiving, contentment, Christian responsibilities
and holy living, just to name a few. Sometimes these things just seem to pass
me by without a second thought – but after this course, the impact will surely
remain etched in my heart and mind for a long time to come!
