26 May 2016

Reflection on CORINTHIANS ADVENTURES

Reflection on CORINTHIANS ADVENTURES
      
The journey through the two weeks of Corinthians has been tremendously overwhelming – not in a bad way, but more like many subtle but impactful revelations all at once. RELOOK, RETHINK and REFOCUS! God has graciously shown me certain aspects of my life that needed a makeover in thought, word or action.
    
     Revisiting issues in Corinthians like church division, love, marriage, freedom, spiritual gifts, the Resurrection of Christ and of the dead has been awesome. Some of these issues are sensitive, while some are those that we shy away from talking about, or worse, sweep under the carpet. Each topic has been helpful in making my learning most meaningful and enjoyable.  
    
     The most important lesson that I learnt from the Corinthians journey can be found in 1 Corinthians 13 - LOVE NEVER FAILS. Without LOVE, everything we do loses its flavour. Love is never easy to adopt in our thoughts, words or actions. We have to consciously build it in until it becomes second nature to us, a lifestyle. Many times I find myself doing things reluctantly or grudgingly. Then the Holy Spirit comes along to prompt me to reflect on my action and I realise that it had been done without much love. This constant reminder has helped me to examine my actions, overcome my negative feelings and be a better person so I can give God the glory through what I do – always with love.
    
     On the topic of MARRIAGE in 1 Corinthian 7 – I am now fully convinced that ‘marriage is forever’ no matter how one tries to find excuses to wrangle one’s way out whenever things do not turn out well. Many couples seem to have the idea that a separation is an option, but it is definitely not the case as outlined by Paul. He commands in verse 10, that husband or wife are “..not (to be) separate from...” each other. I used to think that it is all right for each to go their separate ways instead of to the court to get a formal divorce. Apparently separation is not the answer, for Paul says one has to remain unmarried or be reconciled to the spouse! Therefore, divorce is out of the question. Truly this has helped me to change my perspective of marriage and divorce once and for all. I find the content useful too when I need to share it with others.

     This book on “Marriage & Family” by Wayde and Rosalyn Goodall [1] is highly recommended as it contains all one needs to know about how to make your marriage a success. It is very comprehensive and covers topics like preparing for marriage, adjusting to marriage, relating and succeeding as a family and roles of the husband and wife. Important issues like communication, sexuality and handling tough challenges are also discussed here. In my interaction with the content I found it extremely practical in helping me to refocus and to do my utmost to make my marriage a success.
    
     The class discussion on the resurrection of believers and the resurrection body proved to be very interesting and insightful. Everyone has one view or another of the resurrection and this topic has never stopped fascinating people everywhere. We were very curious as to the form that our bodies will take at the resurrection when Jesus comes again. The analogy of the seed showed that God will give us a radiant body that is suitable for our mode of existence at the future time. This knowledge is sufficient to spur us on to persevere in good works for the Lord and remain faithful to the gospel. I have always wondered what our bodies would look like, but have to leave it to God for only He knows. The present body will be transformed for the future. Suffice to say that it will be a glorious body, like Jesus. The challenge I face here is how to be confident enough to use this knowledge of the resurrection as a channel for evangelism to pre-believers.
    
     In group work, planning the paper and the Uganda skit with my members has been an especially exciting and unforgettable learning experience. I was thrilled to see all my members totally united and pitching in so willingly to take on the various tasks required of us. There was never any question about rights, inconvenience or work allocation. Each one just did the tasks required with promptness, love and joy. Through this group project, I could see the wonderful potential that God has deposited in each one of us. All in all, the effort and time spent walking the Corinthian journey has been more than fruitful and worthwhile – my teachers and fellow course-mates have helped tremendously to make my journey a most memorable one!




              [1] Wayde I. Goodall and Rosalyn R. Goodall, Marriage & Family: Student Manual, Faith & Action Series, Springfield (MO: Resource and Development Ministries, 2006).

6 comments:

  1. Very true. It's been great working with you in the group and class.

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  2. Yes, the group work has been fantastic thus far!

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  3. The resurrection is not an easy topic to discuss and to explain to others. But as believers of Christ, this is a powerful testimony of our faith. This is one of the reasons we persevere in what we are doing because we believe that one day we will see our God face to face with a gloried body.

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  4. Marriage is such a powerful ideal from God that satan is always out to destroy, if a marriage fails many are affected negatively.

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  5. Sister, Yes, Love is never fail, I fully agree ! in fact, serving in apstoral care ministry, Love is the driving power to continue. Without love, no pastor can survive.

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  6. woah, I like your 3R: relook, rethink, refocus. Will consider using this steps for myself. In fact, your group has performed well for the skits. well done.

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